A short paragraph on dating

I really don’t get it. I don’t get why guys who already have girlfriends (and vice versa) have the audacity to go look for someone else. Fine, they could be unhappy in their relationships; then why not break up first? Because they don’t want to be left with nobody? That’s such bullshit. I don’t even know anymore how many taken guys have hit on me. Thank you, but NO, THANK YOU. Most of the time I might seem nonchalant and too chill, almost indifferent, but I have principles. And I know better than to mess with someone’s relationship. I’m not against the idea of dating multiple people at the same time or sleeping around if that’s your thing as long as you’re not in a relationship or exclusively dating someone. It is just so fucked up how some people do not realize that people’s feelings are important and need to be respected. Sure, some people don’t label their relationships and that’s their decision, but once those awaited three words — “I love you” — are uttered, you better not go around and fuck someone else. These are modern times and there are so many unofficial rules it’s almost hard to keep up. But to me, it’s simple. If you are dating someone, but you’ve never talked about it being exclusive, then don’t be hurt too much if you ever find out he/she is seeing someone else. If you are dating exclusively, then I guess you just have to wait for that “I love you” moment to make it official. If you’re in a relationship, don’t go around texting and flirting with other people. If you wanna do that, how about break up with your girlfriend/boyfriend and go back to dating instead of cheating?